The Bright and Boring: The Two Sides of Our Inner Self

Life’s a bit like a seesaw, isn’t it? One moment, you’re on cloud nine, feeling like you can conquer anything, and the next, you’re down in the dumps, wondering what went wrong. We all have these two sides of ourselves – the dazzling and the dull. I am often bamboozled by these twin aspects of my soul but nevertheless, I am intrigued by them. Here are some of my thoughts on it.

 

The Dazzling Side:

 

These are the moments when you’re on fire. You’re inspired, confident, and everything you touch seems to turn to gold. That’s your dazzling side in full swing. It’s when you ace that presentation at work, and everyone applauds your brilliance. It’s the thrill of finishing a project you’re passionate about and seeing it come to life. I love these moments and wish they were an everyday occurrence. The dazzling side isn’t always about big achievements, though. It’s also those small victories that light up your day, like finding a parking spot right in front of your favorite coffee shop on a busy morning or nailing a tricky recipe that turns out to be delicious. It’s those times when your heart skips a beat, and you can’t help but smile.

 

The Dull Side:

 

Now, on to the other side – the dull one. This is when life feels like it’s playing a prank on you. It’s those dreary, routine days when you drag yourself out of bed, dreading the daily grind. Ever been there? It’s when you spill your morning coffee all over your clean shirt or get stuck in an endless line at the grocery store or Walmart. The dull side isn’t always about disasters, but it’s about the humdrum of life. It’s that sense of monotony when you’re doing the laundry for the umpteenth time, or you’re stuck in traffic on your way home from work. It’s those moments when you’re questioning whether you’re making any progress in life.

 

Finding Balance:

 

But here’s the thing – both sides of the coin are crucial. The dazzling side gives you the spark, the motivation, the zest for life. It’s what makes you dream big, try new things, and reach for the stars. It’s your superpower against the mundane. On the flip side, the dull moments teach you patience, resilience, and gratitude. They remind you that not every day is a grand adventure, and that’s okay. They ground you, keep you humble, and make you appreciate the simple joys of life.

 

Life’s a Symphony:

 

Realistically speaking, life’s a beautiful symphony of the dazzling and the dull. The ups and downs, the highs and lows – they’re all part of the melody. Just like a seesaw, you need both sides to stay balanced. The dazzling moments light up your path, while the dull ones make you appreciate the journey. So, next time you’re having a dazzling day, thank God, savor it, relish it, and use it to fuel your dreams. And when you find yourself in a dull moment, pray, take a deep breath, find God’s lesson, and remember that these moments are the building blocks of your character and your story. Your life and mine is an interplay of the bright and boring and that makes life beautiful, relatable, and uniquely yours. Embrace both sides of your soul because they’re what make you human, imperfect, and wonderfully you. “You are fearfully and wonderfully made” … Embrace it!